The Importants of having a Will

Today's blog is going to be about the importance of having a Will in place.
This helps the living relatives and friends, of the one who's past finalize their Last requests and wishes. It also gives a living voice to the deceased. Having a Will, Medical Proxy's, and Life insurance, helps deal with mostof the matters at hand. Each state has different laws when it comes to a dead persons estate, weather with a will or not. Not having a Will in place can make it quite difficult and costly for the living relatives. Thus creating road blocks to help settle any final debts owed by the love one who has past. It can open up a window of hate and greed with in the family.

This is quite true in the case of my family. Even tho my mother had told me and others what her wishes were for the most part. Some in the family decide not to respect them at all. The question a outsider of the family would ask is why? I am sure there are a few reasons why they have done this. But the one that stands at the front of my mind is pure greed. And what fed this greed was a lie my youngest brother, Sperm Donor told them all. He told them all that I cashed in a $80,000.00 life insurance policy on mom. This is not true for that policy elapsed due to him a year before her death.

Here are my thought about the following members who were, and some who still are involved with this lie. My aunt NO Toes and her husband One Ton, have done it to make money at some one ells experience. One Ton is no stranger to such tactics. The Reason for doing this may be financial difficulty with their home mortgage, and bills? Only aunt No Toes works, he dose not.

As for my step sister, Nose Up Her Ass, I think she was involved because she was blinded by lies and hate. And maybe also due to some financial difficulty's?

As for Sperm Donor. He did this so he could be the center of attention, and to continue to get a free ride. Also to divide the family on many levels. Their are a few others, involved or had been involved. But they have never been Key player's like the ones I listed here.

Others in my family like my Aunt Eileen, have seen or have herd about some of these things. Weather from I or others. And in some cases from their lips. She is very discreet about speaking on the matters at hand. My opinion is she is frustrated with how people could just lie to her face. Or the ones that would and have tried to cause a divide between us.
But in the end she always say. "They will have to answer for what they have done come judgement day."

I will list the things they have done in regards to my mothers estate, in my next blog. I will also list what my mother had for assets and belongings.